psychoanalysis

13 Aug 2023 - 02 Oct 2026
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    • THE PHENOMENON OF TRANSFERENCE-HOW WE ALL INvent each other according to early blueprints-was Freud's most original and radical discovery. The idea of infant sexuality and of the Oedipus complex can be accepted with a good deal more equanimity than the idea that the most precious and inviolate of entities-personal relations-is actually a messy jangle of misapprehensions, at best an uneasy truce between powerful solitary fantasy systems. Even (or especially) romantic love is fundamentally solitary, and has at its core a profound impersonality. The concept of transference at once destroys faith in personal relations and explains why they are tragic: we cannot know each other. We must grope around for each other through a dense thicket of absent others. We cannot see each other plain. A horrible · kind of predestination hovers over each new attachment we form. "Only connect," E. M. Forster proposed. "Only we can't," the psychoanalyst knows.
      • – Janet Malcolm, Psychoanalysis: The Impossible Profession (p6)