empathy

27 Jul 2026 - 03 Sep 2026
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    • We seem to be having another round of conservatives making "empathy" into a scare word. The vile Elon Musk is promoting the book Suicidal Empathy by the even viler Gad Saad
    • Such a basic construct, yet so controversial. And sure, it can run to excess, although I think insufficient empathy is more of a real-world problem than too much.
    • Later

      • Was talking with Ken about our various righwing relatives, and how they both were perfectly aligned with the wingnut worldview except in cases where it would affect them personally.
        • In my case: my brother, a perfect wingnut asshole in almost ever respect, inherited a gay stepdaughter with his marriage and so now thinks same-sex marriage is just fine. In his case: some distant relative, same kind of shithead background, who was on-scene at the Las Vegas sniper attack so now is pro-gun-control, without modifying any other of his views.
        • That is to say, it's not that these people lack empathy. They aren't (for the most part) psychopaths. Its more that they want to reserve it for people like them, whatever that means, and exclude those seen as Other. Outsiders are seen both as inferior and a threat.
        • So it's perfectly natural that "gay" used to code for "other", but if it's a family member, then no longer other!
        • You would think that the experience of having your opinion changed on one issue might prove the re-examination of others, but no, it doesn't work that way.
        • Anyway: we realized that it is extremely gender-coded. Men are trained not to display empathy, its a sign of weakness, femininity, gayness. Females are spared these constraints, so appear as these bountiful sources of caring. (Note: I'm talking stereotypes here, which are operative no matter how enlightened or liberated from this stuff you think you are).
        • Liberals have just as much fear of the other as conservatives, but they try to fight it rather than give into it.