He suspends himself in that emptiness where there is no difference between the I and the other.
Assigning absolute value to one's own [property?] is quite opposed to the generosity that expresses original friendliness, which rests on selflessness and propertyless being. [p85)]
In my desire to posit myself as the exclusive totality, I must seek the death of the other. In doing so, however, I expose myself to the danger of death. I not only risk injury but put my whole existance at stake....
The essence of friend is therefore that he is my friend. He is a representation of the I. By contrast, the emptiness from which original friendliness flows de-mirrors that self-based relationship with the other by de-internalizing and emptying out the I. (p90)